Thursday, July 26, 2012

Joe Knows I Am....


I was eating lunch at Wahoo's on South Congress in Austin 
when I had to step outside so I could hear and take a call from Paige.
I sat down in an Adirondack chair next to a man 
with no shoes, a stack of children's books in his lap
and a small worn photo book.

You know me...
Little Miss Curious...
I had to meet him.

Hi, I am Gina.

I am Joe.

You like children's books?

I sell them.
People on the streets like to buy them from me.
I like this book right here.
You can put your family pictures in it.

Do you have a family?

I did.

Joe, are you homeless?

I am.

I'm sorry.

Don't be.
I live down there with some friends.
It's my home.
I had a nice life.
Life brought me here.

I teach school to some children who live in nice houses.
I have a brother with the most amazing house I've ever seen.
I lived in a really nice house before I divorced.
...You know what Joe?
I've realized that you can have a house and still be homeless.

He agreed.
I asked him if he knew God.
He said yes.
I asked him what he knew about God.
He said,
God is I Am.
That's all I need to know.
He is I Am.

I really wanted to hear more about his story,
his life, his understanding of God.

I had to wonder what events in his life
brought him to describe God as such.
He didn't go into detail.
He didn't give me any theological references.
He didn't supply any anecdotes,
theories or personal experiences...
no religious upbringing to support his claim...
Just a simple,
He is I Am.

What has been his journey?
What path led him to the streets of Austin...
without a job, house or family....?

The idea that I might fail and lose everything
has tried to 
tease
taunt 
and haunt me.
I fathom the possibility of
homelessness
nothingness
embarrassment
and shame....

But my mind goes back to Joe and his words...
He is I Am.
And he spoke it with such certainty.

I never really thought about or
understood exactly the meaning of 
I Am....
Sounded like something was missing...

The only thing missing was my ability
to allow God to be my Everything.

When possessions
and relationships
are lost,
you find peace in
God being enough...
or maybe some of us have to
be left with little or nothing to make room for Him.

I don't know...
but I know Joe Knows I Am...
and I am 100% certain that
I will meet Joe again one day...
and that small photo book will not
be large enough to contain all the
pictures of our new family...

I am...
 smiling.
~gina












Sunday, May 27, 2012

oh church...what am I gonna do with you...?

Hebrews 10:25
Forsake not the assembling of yourselves together...
TOGETHER.
Or as the Message version words it:
Let's see how inventive we can be in encouraging love and helping out, not avoiding worshiping TOGETHER, as some do, but spurring each other on, especially as we see the big Day approaching.

Have I become an "As Some Do"?
Am I one of them?

Me & Church...
I was in church at 2 weeks old and rarely missed thereafter.
I once prayed to have a fever so I could stay home and watch
Charlie's Angels like all the cool girls.
They were going to hell but they had so much to talk about the next day at school...
I went to Sunday School, then church, home for the afternoon,
then Bible classes at 5:00, evening worship at 6:00.
Wednesday prayer meetings,
once a month Youth Rallies on Saturdays...
Throw in a couple of week long revivals per year...
I had my church quota met.
This was normal until the age of 18 when I left for college.

Church On My Own...
My first college crush was a godly young man who led Young Life.
He loved Jesus.
He was 20 different kinds of adorable.
He could sing and play the guitar. *swoon.
He heard I was a preacher's daughter and
I'm guessing he thought this meant I was a good girl and a good match for him.
wrong.
Sorry Bobby.
I visited churches while in college so I could tell my parents I had gone.
But it was still  duty instead of  desire.

Church & Marriage.
All American White Baptist Boy.
We went to baptist churches and lived a baptist life.
welcome/announcements
1st, 2nd and 4th verse in the hymn books.
around 2001 we incorporated some praise and worship to the angst of the founders.
We called it Contemporary, they called it Rock & Roll.
By 2004 we had the lyrics, all fancy on an LSD projector.
Hit the chorus of How Great is Our God and we wonder who will stand first.
It's like the wave at a baseball game...
one at a time popping off the pews...
before you know it we are all standing.
You didn't want to be the only one sitting.
Look at us go.
someone sings a special.
everyone claps.
Sermon.
Highlighter in hand. Stay focused.
Offering.
Wonder where we will eat lunch.
Hope the other churches didn't get out first and we will have to wait...
I'm starving.
Smile, wave, it was great to see you....
ta-da...
church.

Church & Divorce
I didn't go back to the church I had attended faithfully
for 15 years.
X got the church.
And honestly,
he can have it.
I left the marriage.
They were there to console the one left.
I didn't fit anymore.
It's unfortunate, but sin exposed did not go well with our church pew upholstery.
I was scarlet red and the pews were baby blue...
Not the best combination.
Church is for pretty people.
I'd never felt uglier.

Forsaking...
I attend, in an inconsistent effort,
a church 37 miles from my house.
No one knows me.
I'm not the preacher's kid...
or the X of anyone...
I'm just anonymously blending in.
Not contributing.
Just attending.
I know better.
My prayer is that God will use me.
Take the gifts He's given me and show me how to give back...
I can't sing.
How I wish I could.
I can, however, share my story in hopes that someone else
feeling what it feels like to fail can find some hope...
I can tell my story of Grace.
I know it well...
The story that took me from obligations, comfortable pews,
a glass castle, and a pretty life of fitting in,
to where I am today...
free to stay home and watch Charlie's Angels, but finally realizing
nothing on TV compares to real worship...

I like church...
gina




Sunday, December 25, 2011

this Christmas...



Wake up to snow.
Not just any snow...but Narnia like billows of endless flakes for over 24 hours.
Hannah said she prayed it would snow.
prayer answered.
I prayed for God to permeate the walls of my house with laughter.
He answered that one too...
I am so blessed.
at peace.
I am beyond thankful.
I am amazed.
May you enjoy this day.
Don't just give presents...
be present.
Look around you.
and when things are not perfect...
appreciate the imperfections.
make new traditions.
there will never be another Christmas...
just like this one.
...wishing you laughter.
love,
gina


Monday, July 25, 2011

There Goes Another One

     Middle Girl left for college yesterday. Watching her pack up her room and load it in her car was tough. Ouch. She will be moving in with big sister and only a couple of hours away, but it still hurts to say goodbye.

     As we were driving I had a realization meltdown. I knew this day was coming but knowing and accepting are two different things.  When Paige was born someone told me, "Embrace every moment, they grow up way too fast." The truest words ever spoken. It happens in a blink.

     I tried to look on the bright side.  With that gypsy heart of hers she could easily have sailed off to an island or taken a few dollars and made her way to New York City... just to say she did.

It may seem odd but Laken and I were like a little old couple living together. We had a routine.  We ate the same foods, watched the same television programs, would actually rather read than watch tv, enjoyed the same temperature in the house...

The past couple of years have been tough and life has happened, but I have watched her survive situations that few grownups could endure. She is a brave, strong, most delicate beauty; a real Steel Magnolia. I know she will be okay. I just know she will.

Hannah has four years left and then she will sprout wings and fly out of the nest just like her older sisters. It will happen. And it will come too soon.

I think I will find some land and build four houses on it. One for each of us. Don't worry girls. I will put plenty of space between us. I need my privacy too...but when you are outside and see me on my front porch swing acting as if I don't need anyone or anything...feel free to remind me otherwise and stop on by. I will have some sweet tea waiting.



Laken's Life In Boxes

We have a hammer, screwdriver and a measuring tape...all  the tools a girl needs to move in or out of a house.

She doesn't want to go...I can tell. :)

One more photo before I let you go...

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